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I go through the same thing with erotic boxing. You message them and they ignore you. And I have all my info posted.

yeah I think the site is just flooded with to many flakes rather than fighters

No one red flags people, just blocks people instead. It leaves others in the dark if people are regularly playing games.

the admin do not care about this at all. I did sometime when i talk to people about meeting and ending up getting ghosted, i put their username in my profile intro, guess what. the Admin suspended my account saying that I am calling these people out based on personal biases and i need to give others a chance to know them instead of once off. So i stop 'red flagging' them

I would think that was the chance, you didn't meet and ghosted. Anyway, I don't think people use the red flag and it's refractive on how often it's commented on.

Hmm. I have never experienced quite that.

We all need to recognize that some people are here exclusively for sparring partners - practice and competitive. For others it's a voyeristic role play experience. Others are real wrestlers that have it creep into eroticism - and many, many more. Consequently ask a lot of "dumb" questions like "what do you want to do".

recommendations say a lot too. Flake or not? Axe murderer (apparently an ineffective one if previous opponents are alive), but the real clues is in what people say. And it's why I always write a rec.

The blocking thing is certainly rude. hey one guy blocked me and years later started pestering me for a match. uhhhhh?

But if you assume that this place is primarily about true fights, it may be you that is out of step with the cultural norm here.

Yes, this is MeetFighters, but it’s also a community for MeatLovers.

Believing that “everyone is here to wrestle” may not be a realistic expectation, as this community also caters to a BDSM fetish (agonophilia).

If there were a study showing that people who feel slighted or unwanted on one platform have similar feelings on other M2M sites, I wouldn’t be surprised.

While the site allows you to 👍 or 👎 profiles based on your preferences, not everyone will form the same kind of connection or communication with everyone else.

We all know someone who has negative marks on their profile, but does that truly reflect everyone's experience?

On Blocking:
During my time as a wrestling video producer, I’ve had "talent" fly across the country to shoot content, only to attempt extortion afterward. That experience wouldn’t necessarily be the same for everyone working with them.

Why? Because I am unique and not every equation that I am a part of will produce the same chemical reaction.

Just as you are unique, some people will click with you, while others may not—and that’s perfectly fine. Over time, you learn to spot the red flags from the green ones.

Expecting everyone to behave according to your standards of decorum will only drain your energy. You can either dwell on it or move on—everyone has free will.

What’s more rewarding is finding your tribe, which could include past opponents. Build those friendships, relationships, and playful rivalries. I can’t count how many times I remember Shawn Michaels and the Undertaker wrestled/fought, and each match got better with time.

Thank you for being open and sharing your experience with us and would love to hear about the many other positive experiences you’ve had just as well.

Thank you for your comment and yes I have had a lot of positive experience on this with matches and I have a had a few of those Shawn Michaels/Undertaker experiences with a few of my past opponents who still here and ones who are no longer on the site we have been bonded together with our wrestling experience that will always be part of our present and past memories.