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FIGHTING SHIRTLESS
Most men prefer to fight or wrestle shirtless. This is true of men who are straight as well as gay or bi. So the need to be bare-chested when fighting clearly goes beyond sexual attraction. Pro wrestlers have always taken their shirts off in the ring, for example. Interestingly, collegiate rules require a singlet.
I'm interested in hearing about whether you prefer to wrestle shirtless (as opposed to in a singlet or other gear), and if so, why it's important to you to take your shirt off before engaging in combat with another man, and what effect it has on your fighting or wrestling abilities. I'm also curious about why you think college rules require singlets,, even when other collegiate sports like swimming and diving permit men to be shirtless.
I like to wrestle shirtless, and I like my opinion to be shirtless as well, even if I'm not attracted to him physically. To me, fighting is a form of male bonding, and being bare-chested is part of that. I also instantly feel more aggressive the minute I take my shirt off in front of an opponent.
Please add your comments below.
Stmbt797 (2)
11/14/2023 1:27 AMoh hell yeh brotha . . always shirtless . . .
need to be free to move . . also makes the belly a great target
. . def man to man bod to bod
Pinmeifyoucan (39)
11/14/2023 7:43 PM(In reply to this)
Shirtless balls to the wall
BamaJDon41 (10 )
11/14/2023 1:33 AMShirts off engages the animalistic instinct that adds to the competition, or whatever it is you happen to be doing.
ChiBox (34 )
11/14/2023 1:33 AMTotally agree with your philosophy on shirtless combat. I prefer boxing shirtless and really dislike the fact that USA Boxing requires amateur boxers to complete wearing a T shirt or singlet. Up until the late 1970s, amateur boxers competed wearing trunks and no shirts.
Stmbt797 (2)
11/14/2023 1:49 AMyeh man so primal
dirtybarefet (0)
11/14/2023 2:39 AMnot shirtless,
NAKED
Stmbt797 (2)
11/14/2023 2:57 AM(In reply to this)
Haha yeh man . . more clothes- less . . instead of just shirtless . !! Haha
Stmbt797 (2)
11/14/2023 2:58 AM(In reply to this)
Ancient Greek - like
grkwrestler (1)
11/15/2023 5:23 AM(In reply to this)
The Greeks had it right....primal male competition and bonding
Stmbt797 (2)
11/15/2023 5:27 AM(In reply to this)
Yes 👍 hard fights and naked
PhoenixBigBear (19 )
11/14/2023 1:55 PM(In reply to this)
Agreed, clothes-less is better ... shirts off is a primal way of showing your opponent your body strength for the coming combat.
I prefer naked ... true primal man to man bonding! BAck to the ancient Greek athletes.
roughouser (14)
11/14/2023 3:37 AMMost asexual men also prefer fighting shirtless. It's a very primal thing. The bonding is just as intense.
NJWoodbridge (141)
11/14/2023 4:23 AMCollegiate wrestling was also pretty shirtless from WWII to the early 1960's.
jcapo (1 )
11/14/2023 6:25 AMSometimes a half shirt is fun to wrestle in.
Stmbt797 (2)
11/14/2023 5:42 PM(In reply to this)
Oh yeh man definitely!
Stmbt797 (2)
3/17/2024 3:01 AM(In reply to this)
Def wrestle you in half shirts
Shapeshifter (30)
11/14/2023 10:57 AMI've wrestled in singlets before - and have just this week ordered some to start using to mix things up - but that's been only rarely and I've always preferred the look, feel and freedom of being shirtless.
The contact as so many have said is such an important part of a meet, the skin-to-skin when pinned or working a hold is always more effective shirtless than with a barrier of clothing in the way. The heat, the physical feel of the muscles beneath, even sometimes the hammering heartbeats as we undertake the match.
I suppose it's also a clear display of what you're bringing to the match; a lot of animals roar and fluff up, wrestlers lose their shirts and flex ;)
PhoenixBigBear (19 )
11/14/2023 4:09 PM(In reply to this)
Excellent take on wrestling shirtless.
I would respectfully add that the skin-to-skin, body 2 body contact is intensified when two shirtless guys start off their fight with a hard staredown, pressing their bodies and faces against each other.
Centaur (63)
11/14/2023 5:32 PM(In reply to this)
That’s moving to a kink rather than combat though isn’t it?
PhoenixBigBear (19 )
11/14/2023 7:22 PM(In reply to this)
I'd agree with you that it is a kink, but it's understood as a choice if both wrestlers want it. Not a requirement.
Juggernaut (0)
11/14/2023 6:34 PM(In reply to this)
My sentiments exactly. Well said.
Centaur (63)
11/14/2023 3:51 PMAs a guy who trains multiple times a week in a Gi I don’t mind either way, rashguards stop ringworm and other nasties, I’m happy to go shirtless o I’ll choke you in a Gi match, there isn’t much difference
AnuGrappler (34 )
11/14/2023 3:52 PMI prefer shirtless, but I think people who like the other things on just prefer to keep it strictly about the sport and less about the primal competitive nature of it or the exciting sense of domination. It's kind of the difference between bare knuckle boxing or with gloves. I like sensory experiences, some are just trying to do a cushioned test of strength and skill.
Pinmeifyoucan (39)
11/14/2023 4:04 PMIm in it to win it but it's easier to see the guys muscles flexing etc. Then you know what you must worship if you lose
Juggernaut (0)
11/14/2023 5:27 PMWell to be blunt, I've seen many men remove their shirts before a fight and it cases more nausea than intimidation. So it all depends on the physical conditioning of the combatants. For some, shirts/torso coverings (full or partial) are a good thing.
If I had an opponent that had a hairy chest or back he would definitely need to wear a shirt. If he did not, I would.
Pinmeifyoucan (39)
11/14/2023 5:44 PM(In reply to this)
Haha right as some guys should not ever lol
ant-tor (6)
11/14/2023 6:21 PMLove it. Manly. But buds in Highschool didn’t think so. When said let’s wrestle and took shirt off we’re like. Wtf bro. :(
Luctator (3)
11/14/2023 10:03 PM(In reply to this)
Exactly the same when I was in hs lol. Times have changed :)
Luctator (3)
11/14/2023 10:02 PMI prefer shirtless or a gi, depending on the kind of match. A gi offers more grip for certain holds in ne waza. But for submission I feel more vulnerable facing my opponent shirtless, also showing them that I don't hesitate to face them without any protecting cover at all. Also, if body shots are allowed, being shirtless shows the target nicely.
Stmbt797 (2)
11/14/2023 10:52 PM(In reply to this)
yeh agree . . . wrestling shirtless . . . looking for that open and vulnerable gut to punch
Sweatychest (16)
11/15/2023 3:40 PMShirtless is the only way to wrestle. Both men on the mats/ring. Both exposed. The sweat, contact make the match all the more intense and aggressive. Deep down, as men, we are wired to fight. Taking off the shirts shows our physique in an attempt to intimidate our opponent.
Pinmeifyoucan (39)
11/15/2023 4:07 PM(In reply to this)
With a chest like SweatyChest I'd take my shirt off too
Centaur (63)
11/15/2023 5:41 PM(In reply to this)
We really aren’t lol
We might be wired to fight but I’ll have a rash guard any day 😝
grkwrestler (1)
11/15/2023 5:18 PMI agree with going shirtless. a low cut singlet is good too is both guys are into wearing them
Stmbt797 (2)
3/17/2024 3:04 AM(In reply to this)
Oh yeh this is hot 🥵
SeattleFight (489)
3/17/2024 2:45 AMSomething about tearing off your shirt signals a fight is about to go down
Stmbt797 (2)
3/17/2024 3:04 AM(In reply to this)
Heck yeh it does !