Lovetobecrushed23's blog

With the help of a good mentor, I have FINALLY uploaded my first short video to Watchfighters.

I am not as active and don't get to wrestle as much as I would love to, so keeping constant videos will be difficult, but I will upload videos as much as I can. I would love you to check my profile out on Watchfighters (lovetobecrushed23), and any feedback would be welcome; this is a new world and adventure for me so please don't be harsh; I am new to this and learning as I go.

I know I will get a lot of hate for this blog, but due to the recent amount of hateful responses I have gotten via messages when I reject matches with someone I feel I need to explain this in the best way I know how.

So when I wrestle, I wrestle men who I am both intellectually and physically attracted to, ALTHOUGH sex is not required during my matches.
Yes, I know that seems contradictory. Well.......really, it's not.
Wrestling has a sexual aspect and nature to it.
Something about two men locking bodies together with skin-to-skin contact and rolling around getting all sweaty is just an absolute erotic turn-on.
So, with that being said, I wrestle with those I am attracted to, and when that comes, an age range is stated in my profile.

I understand this might upset some people, and I understand why it would, but not everyone is compatible with everybody, and some have what are called preferences.
I should not have to explain myself if I reject an offer to wrestle with you, but I do it so there is not a misunderstanding.

The Art of the Choke: Building Bonds Through Trust, Skill, and Connection

Wrestling has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember. Growing up, I was captivated by the intricate moves, the raw athleticism, and, oddly enough, the moments when a well-applied chokehold stole the show. There was something about it—a mix of fascination and, yes, a certain thrill that I couldn’t quite explain back then.

My first personal experience with a chokehold came when I was just a kid. My cousin, who was diving headfirst into Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ), asked if he could practice a rear-naked choke (RNC) on me. I agreed, curious and trusting. It was a surreal moment—the sensation of the hold, the control, and ultimately, the complete knockout. That moment stuck with me, and over time, I realized it wasn’t just about the technique; it was about the bond formed in those interactions.

Chokes Beyond the Ring: A Bond of Trust

As I’ve grown older, my appreciation for these moments has deepened. Trading chokes back and forth with a buddy doesn’t have to lead anywhere beyond what it is—a unique and deeply trusting interaction. There’s something undeniably powerful about the connection formed when two people share this kind of experience. It’s not just about the physicality; it’s about mutual respect, trust, and learning from one another.

Imagine you’re hanging out with a buddy, swapping stories about different holds and techniques. The conversation flows naturally; before you know it, you’re demonstrating a new variation or revisiting an old favorite. There’s no malice, no ego—just two people who genuinely enjoy the art of the choke, exploring its nuances together. It’s playful, it’s educational, and it’s incredibly bonding.

Why Skin-to-Skin Contact Matters

One of the most underrated aspects of these interactions is the skin-to-skin contact. It’s primal, grounding, and oddly comforting. This kind of physical interaction feels authentic and real in a world dominated by screens and superficial connections. It’s a reminder that human connection doesn’t always need words—sometimes, it’s about the unspoken understanding that comes with trust and shared experiences.

Building a friendship of Like-Minded Buddies

If this resonates with you, you’re not alone. I’m looking to connect with people who share this passion—people who love both giving and receiving chokes, who appreciate the artistry and the bond that comes with it. Whether you’re into BJJ, wrestling, or just curious about exploring this unique connection, there’s a place for you here.

I want to create a buddy system, a network of individuals who I can:

Trade choke techniques and variations.

Share stories, videos, and tips.

Connect over a shared appreciation for trust and skill.

Build genuine, lasting bonds through this mutual interest.

This isn’t about competition or ego. It’s about camaraderie, learning, and celebrating a shared passion in a safe and respectful way. Whether you’re a seasoned grappler or just starting, everyone is welcome.

drop a comment below! Share your favorite choke variation or a memorable story, or simply say hi.