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Ideal style and rules!
So I came across this by accident. It's actually on youtube although it is a little dated this match clip is perfect for what I envision.
It's competitive, its got struggle, some low power body striking. Some skill, lots of grappling and crushing power. The attire is great and man what a great fight.
I tried to find some more of it and other than it is likely a BGEast video I can't find more on it.
So as it is right there is my ideal. Maybe with some low power elbows and knees thrown in, and the odd lift you up in a bear hug and slam you down a bit. However it is awesome for the power and struggle it displays. Almost like a slow motion mma fight. You get close to feeling the fight, but without being all smashed up the next day (you should be sore and stiff though!).
I like mma gloves too but this is awesome as it is. Safety first, and I like for each of us to coach each other up and down in power and intensity as the match progresses.
Now for limits, as you can see on my profile. I can go without the shorts and am open to some handwork, and frot if the chemistry is right. For the record I'm NANONK (No anal, no oral, no kissing). Also I can't be convinced or negotiated into more, and I'm not big into stakes.
I am particularly into the competition and struggle. I realize the original video likely goes further than my own limits, but this clip for its purpose is perfect. As I've been asked about this before, yes I can 'just fight and leave'. If you need more, you've seen my limits they're absolute.
Anyway this fight is absolutely great both from the spectacle of watching it, to imagining being in it. This is what I mean when I ask what are your ideal style and rules. Well this is mine!
petroglyph888 (17)
1/29/2025 1:55 AMI'm too INexperienced to respond intelligently to most of your post, despite how interesting it is.
Two things I want to say though: my least favorite part of that video is all the talking: it's a turn off for me. But ironically, when I wrestle, I end up chit-chatting😒. I chalk it up to my lack of focus.
The other thing is that acronym you invented: NANONK. Very clever. I was surprised that I couldn't find it anywhere in the internet, meaning that no one thought of it before.
Crushnthud (0 )
1/29/2025 2:18 AMCool, and NANONK was sprung on me earlier. I ended up having to ask as I didn't know what it meant either. It suited my situation.
Despite this "hobby" I still think of myself as 'straight'. I know I'm not which is why I have heteroflexible picked as my orientation but I've learned that sexuality is definitely more of a range, or scale.
Juggernaut (0)
1/29/2025 4:35 AMI agree, others should not expect something you're not offering. They should either accept your preferences and limits, or move on.
GrapplerFL (11)
2/05/2025 6:41 AMoh yea, that match is hot as it gets - the ideal style for sure. thats a bigboy match, hes a wonderful wrestler and bodybuilder who was active on global fight with quite a matches under his belt. vs another stud who enjoyed what we enjoy. they had a MUCH longer version of the match. dont remember who won but they both hard a great time fightin' and there were some other dudes watchin' too.
this is same style i enjoy - and i also identify as 'str8' (ish) and like NANONK ( i just learned what that was reading it here) but am super flexible about doing a bit more when i feel it. i been at this since 21, so have tried a few diff things :)
also have a woman, she's also a lil wild. so we have lots in common - believe we are friends on another site, a fetish site. like yer style bud.