On the receiving side I would love to be in a position where I can't do anything about it. I can only double over as much and the giver wants. Blindfolded, I have no idea when its coming or where its going to hit me. The ribs, sides, the stomach. The surprise of each blow in my gut, knocking the air out of me. No choice but to take it. Repeatedly.
As a giver, the sanctity of the trust I'm being handed-and the control it gives me to decide the experience they have in turn, be it crushing and overwhelming, to sensual or more mild and pleasant and within a parameter of comfortability. The fact that ultimately I'd love to see them collapsed and struggling to pull in air-but I can range it to grunts and forcing spurts of air, to instilling dull aches, or setting them on fire-and ultimately rather it's what they want or not, I have permission to carry out my desire on them. I respect that enough to never overwhelm unless they've expressed interest in such-but it's always amazing to see and feel the opportunity to crush someone, and have that consensual control.
In taking relaxed punches-I've so far enjoyed giving that control and trusting that while I hope some of what happens isn't all immensively destructive-by the end I want to be overwhelmed at least a little. I give them that right and power over me-I RELINQUISHED control rather than never having had it.
Though control is an excessively huge thing for me-relaxing and letting my stomach get filled with bigger force and pressure than my range of comfortability and finding myself at a point where I'm desperate to pull air back in has always been a huge fantasy. Just the context of relaxing and PERMITTING it is hugely necessary.
I totally agree with you. Reaching a consensus on what is allowed will ensure a return meet. Allowing your receiver to get warmed up, will ensure that in all probability you will be invited to hit harder, and into more sensitive areas of the abdomen, like the s,plexus.
Really buddy? Are you a fighter/ participant of gut punching, or a poet/ politician because the writing of your recent comment masks any meaningful answer that your trying to get across to us average punch drunk lovers of punching pleasures. Knowing when to punch, block, take and the sensations experienced while doing so would suffice. Just my opinion Thanks!
I'm a fighter, puncher, punchee, poet, musician, and aspiring novelist actually yes. I simply answered the question-just as I thought it out-my answer isn't as pretentious as you might think.
I like the control and the consensual release of it. And the power and feeling when I pass that power. As well as...the feel of a punch in my gut over the dull thud and bruising on braced abs.
seeing other guys get em LOL. I seldom can control my mind not to tense when getting punched . Been a few times I closed my eyes or looked away so I couldn't see punch coming. I like letting a few in sometimes even a moderately hard one
Man what a great picture! A belly like that, something like mine, when relaxed the punches sink in more and there is so much more play as the belly bounces and movement during the punching. Enjoyable to me as a taker and a giver.
Mr Subtle (0)
5/06/2015 4:14 AMOn the receiving side I would love to be in a position where I can't do anything about it. I can only double over as much and the giver wants. Blindfolded, I have no idea when its coming or where its going to hit me. The ribs, sides, the stomach. The surprise of each blow in my gut, knocking the air out of me. No choice but to take it. Repeatedly.
Mike Browne (1)
3/02/2015 6:49 PMAs a taker i love being punched w/o flexing. I love the feeling of a fist deep in my gut. I love the feeling of the air pushed out of my gut
Dunla (2)
2/06/2015 7:12 PMAs a giver, the sanctity of the trust I'm being handed-and the control it gives me to decide the experience they have in turn, be it crushing and overwhelming, to sensual or more mild and pleasant and within a parameter of comfortability. The fact that ultimately I'd love to see them collapsed and struggling to pull in air-but I can range it to grunts and forcing spurts of air, to instilling dull aches, or setting them on fire-and ultimately rather it's what they want or not, I have permission to carry out my desire on them. I respect that enough to never overwhelm unless they've expressed interest in such-but it's always amazing to see and feel the opportunity to crush someone, and have that consensual control.
In taking relaxed punches-I've so far enjoyed giving that control and trusting that while I hope some of what happens isn't all immensively destructive-by the end I want to be overwhelmed at least a little. I give them that right and power over me-I RELINQUISHED control rather than never having had it.
Though control is an excessively huge thing for me-relaxing and letting my stomach get filled with bigger force and pressure than my range of comfortability and finding myself at a point where I'm desperate to pull air back in has always been a huge fantasy. Just the context of relaxing and PERMITTING it is hugely necessary.
Mutz (0)
3/27/2015 1:30 PM(In reply to this)
I totally agree with you. Reaching a consensus on what is allowed will ensure a return meet. Allowing your receiver to get warmed up, will ensure that in all probability you will be invited to hit harder, and into more sensitive areas of the abdomen, like the s,plexus.
tough gut (6)
2/07/2015 6:09 PM(In reply to this)
Really buddy? Are you a fighter/ participant of gut punching, or a poet/ politician because the writing of your recent comment masks any meaningful answer that your trying to get across to us average punch drunk lovers of punching pleasures. Knowing when to punch, block, take and the sensations experienced while doing so would suffice. Just my opinion Thanks!
Dunla (2)
2/07/2015 7:49 PM(In reply to this)
I'm a fighter, puncher, punchee, poet, musician, and aspiring novelist actually yes. I simply answered the question-just as I thought it out-my answer isn't as pretentious as you might think.
I like the control and the consensual release of it. And the power and feeling when I pass that power. As well as...the feel of a punch in my gut over the dull thud and bruising on braced abs.
slimbut (5)
2/05/2015 10:12 PMseeing other guys get em LOL. I seldom can control my mind not to tense when getting punched . Been a few times I closed my eyes or looked away so I couldn't see punch coming. I like letting a few in sometimes even a moderately hard one
tough gut (6)
2/05/2015 1:59 AMComments from givers and takers would be interesting to see Please log in to view gallery photos.
Gutboxer (46)
2/08/2015 4:02 PM(In reply to this)
Man what a great picture! A belly like that, something like mine, when relaxed the punches sink in more and there is so much more play as the belly bounces and movement during the punching. Enjoyable to me as a taker and a giver.