Hi folks! I notice under match structure there are options to confirm that you're open to phone chatting and online chatting which is great! it means I can narrow my search paramiters to find guys who are into specific things when the mood strikes me for a phone chat :) love that feature!
But I notice more and more people engage on skype or some other cam 2 cam app. Would it be possible to add this to the match structure options?
The way I see it, it further enhances what is already a brilliant search function and makes you more able to connect with the guys who are into the same stuff as you :)
The 'cyber match' option covers it a little bit but in truth the cyber experience is quite a broad topic. You see not everyone who cybers likes cam 2 cam. the majority of cyber fighters prefer the anonymity of a text based interaction, either of yahoo messenger or a similar platform. I guess with this whole past-time/fetish anonymity is quite an important factor :p What I'm interested in is being able to pin point the community of wrestlers who enjoy more face to face action over camera.
What I would love to be able to do is search for the members of Meet Fighters who like to chat over camera, be it skype, on the chat room here or wherever. What I do at the moment is I search for key markers like 'Cyber Match' 'phone chatting' & 'Online chatting' which tells me that those members are people who like interaction on some level and then I look through the profiles to see who'd be a fit and THEN after all that's done I send a polite message asking if they're interested in using a web cam to chat or more. All in all it's a very protracted exercise and I've found that only a small percentage of the people I contact are interested in cam to cam chats, Which is of course fine! we all have our likes and dislikes :) Bur it does leave me a little worried over how many people I'm bothering unnecessarily and I feel a 'Cam 2 Cam' marker would be supremely helpful in allowing me and people like myself to find others with the same interests to interact with.
I love this website and will always continue to use it but I just thought this might be a function that helps people connect and grow the community :) I remember when I first got into all this I thought wrestling was wrestling and that all the people here would have the same passions and likes as me, then I came to realise that there are a hundred and one subcultures within this community! so any tools to help narrow the search are always appreciated :)